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SUPPORT

Being A Place To Lean

Life will test both of you.
Illness.
Work pressure.
Family stress.
Invisible worries you carry in your chest.

The old pattern is to feel alone next to each other.
Each person drowning in their own thoughts,
unsure how to ask for help
or afraid of being a burden.

Support in love is not fixing every problem.
It is letting the other person feel that their weight does not land on empty air.
That there is a human field around them that can hold some of it.

Sometimes that looks like a listening ear.
Sometimes it is practical help.
Sometimes it is simply sitting close while they cry or stare at the wall
so they know they are not facing this part of the story alone.

Studies keep saying the same thing.
Feeling supported is one of the strongest protectors for health and happiness.

Love, here, is choosing to be each others safe place,
especially when the world feels sharp.

PRACTICE

Today or this week, ask them one clear question: What is one way I can support you right now. Let them answer without jumping in. If they ask for something you can give, do it simply and quietly. If they are not sure, offer one option such as Do you want me to just listen, help you plan, or distract you. Let that small act be proof that you are on their side.

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